Bashar and Seth and not sure if Neville too ... they say that whatever you are experiencing now you have chosen to experience now.
And while that might not be what you want to hear, when you get yourself of that high horse (if it's about things you don't want) and really think about it, then you have had thoughts that brought you where you are.
The same thing is true for all the things that you do love to see in your life.
Be aware of what you tell yourself is true every moment of the day, and you have found the secret of creation.
You've got this.